Today I’m doing okay.

 I went to work Thursday because bored of grief and estate stuff, lonely, and had Stuff To Do I didn’t want to reschedule anyway.   it was fine, I like my coworkers.  my brainpower is still limited.

i forgot my wallet at the office yesterday (thanks, Tile) so I went in, undecided about staying, but I ended up staying till noon and doing 3 main things.   Then I got pastries and came home and napped.

couple things: I wanted to make sure she was happy with her choice to move up here, so we spent a lot of fun quality time together.  I felt kinda selfish about missing how she’d help out, but therapist pointed out that’s part of how she showed her love, so it’s okay to miss that.

Doing the Estate Things is going ok.   NH has a guide called “administering an estate” and an e-file system with wizard questions (not the fun kind of wizard, sadly).  

one surprise: we met with Mom’s accountant and I expected it to be about Things to Do but it was “you will have an inherited IRA. Here is what you can do with that and the tax ramifications.”  
 

Did a scheduling meeting for Ty’s senior year, too - he’s such a gentle soul <3