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Oct. 3rd, 2024 10:37 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
alicevangelineDeeply in not-my-circus territory.
This is a skill I'm developing: learning when things are Not My Problem, and it feels kind of 'shouldn't I be helping?' but also kind of greedy and luxurious to say "nope." It's a bureaucracy and I'm not at the right level to be involved.
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clarification: was sitting at my desk trying very hard to tune out the conference room meeting about a project I'm involved in. Heard my name, and questions I could answer, and succeeded in waiting for someone to come and ask me instead of popping up to help. I'm not in the meeting. It is not my problem and none of my business until someone asks me.
This is a skill I'm developing: learning when things are Not My Problem, and it feels kind of 'shouldn't I be helping?' but also kind of greedy and luxurious to say "nope." It's a bureaucracy and I'm not at the right level to be involved.
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clarification: was sitting at my desk trying very hard to tune out the conference room meeting about a project I'm involved in. Heard my name, and questions I could answer, and succeeded in waiting for someone to come and ask me instead of popping up to help. I'm not in the meeting. It is not my problem and none of my business until someone asks me.